Book Byte #148 "Clear Thinking" by Shane Parrish
Turning Ordinary Moments into Extraordinary Results
đŁ Curious Quote from the Author
âResults are a function of position. You donât need to be smarter than others to outperform them if you can out-position them. Anyone looks like a genius when theyâre in a good position, and even the smartest person looks like an idiot when theyâre in a bad one.â
âWhat happens in ordinary moments determines your future.â
âReacting without reasoning makes every situation worse. Whether big or small, these unforced errors consume significant time and energy just to get you back to where you were before.â
âOur desire to feel right overpowers our desire to be right.â
âMost people go through life assuming that weâre right about everything all the time and that people who donât see things our way are wrong. We mistake how we want the world to be with how it actually is. The subject doesnât matter: weâre right about politics, other people, our memories; you name it. We mistake what we believe for the true facts.
Of course, we canât be right about everything all the time. Everyone makes mistakes or misremembers some things. But we still want to feel right all the time, and ideally get other people to reinforce that feeling. Hence, we channel inordinate amounts of energy to proving to othersâor ourselvesâthat weâre right. When this happens, weâre less concerned with outcomes and more concerned with protecting our egos.â
âOne reason the best in the world make consistently good decisions is they rarely find themselves forced into a decision by circumstancesâ
âWorking with a master firsthand is the best education; itâs the surest way of raising the bar. Their excellence demands your excellence. But most of us arenât lucky enough to have that opportunity. Still, not all is lost. If you donât have the chance to work with a master directly, you can still surround yourself with people who have higher standards by reading about them and their work.â
đ Cognition of the Bookâs Big Idea:
By practicing mindfulness, you can learn to recognize and avoid falling into the traps of emotion, ego, conformity, and inertia. Increasing your self-awareness, self-control, and self-assurance improves your capacity for thinking. Customized strategies can address any residual issues.
Making wise decisions requires problem definition, creative problem-solving, careful evaluation, and learning. You can define and influence the future you want by living deliberately and intentionally when you tie all of these behaviors to your purpose and beliefs.
âChildren develop self-confidence when they learn simple skills like pulling up a zipper, tying their shoes, or riding a bike. Eventually, that self-confidence evolves and propels them to develop more complex abilities as adultsâfor instance, writing software, painting murals, or cheering up a disheartened friend.â
âOur default behavior often makes things worse.â
âRationality is wasted if you donât know when to use it.â
đ ď¸Fixing the Tech Industry
Self-confidence is hard to hold for long periods of time. There will undoubtedly be problems that you will face that will destroy your self-confidence.
But if you can gauge where your self-confidence does come from, that would be acting on your strengths, and anyone who is able to do that will most likely succeed in their endeavors.
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