Book Byte #286 "How to Become a People Magnet" by Marc Reklau
62 Strategies for Powerful Relationships and Positive Impact
📣 Curious Quotes from the Author
“A great way to convince people is quoting someone.”
“We live in a society that longs for appreciation, recognition and feeling important.”
“Do you want to receive more compliments? Give more compliments. Do you want to be more admired? Admire more. Do you want to be loved more? Love more. Do you want recognition of your true worth? Recognize the true worth of others. Do you want sincere appreciation? Give sincere appreciation to others.”
“A great way to convince people is quoting someone.”
“Stop making assumptions and start asking questions. It will change everything. Don’t Take Anything Personally”
“It’s impossible to change other people unless they are the ones who want to change.”
“Only small minds criticize because they are either cowards, or too weak to create something themselves, or both.”
“Pessimists interpret events as permanent and personal—‘what’s wrong with me?’, ‘I’ll never learn.’ Optimists see events as temporary. ‘I wasn’t in good shape today; I’m sure I’ll do better tomorrow. Nevertheless, I’m one step closer to the goal.”
“Remember, we all want real appreciation and praise, but it has to be sincere and genuine.”
“We are more interested in ourselves than in anything else.”
“Never tell your problems to anyone…20 percent don’t care, and the other 80 per cent are glad you have them.”
📚 Cognition of the Book’s Big Idea
Your capacity to form solid relationships is directly related to your level of happiness and success. Your relationships both personally and professionally are greatly improved by developing your people skills. You make good impressions by listening intently, posing intelligent queries, and demonstrating a sincere interest in other people. You may strengthen your relationships even more by keeping eye contact, remembering names, and giving genuine comments. It is crucial to put these ideas into practice. Just knowing them is insufficient.
You have to implement them. Begin modestly, show appreciation frequently, recognize good qualities, and maintain a kind grin. Your relationships will significantly improve as a result of these efforts. Better relationships ultimately depend on your desire to use these strategies and keep a positive attitude. Start with the approaches that most appeal to you. Making minor adjustments will have a big impact on your success and pleasure.
Until Tomorrow,
Jason (Founder Club255)