Book Byte #1 "No More Mr. Nice Guy" by Dr. Robert Glover
A Proven Plan for Getting What you Want in Love, Sex and Life
Book Review #1
"No More Mr. Nice Guy" by Dr. Robert Glover
Club255 Update:
The Goal of 2024 is using this new format of my Newsletter to help you with your lives as Geeks. I love learning, and most Social Media is dying, there’s just too much junk content out there. Books are the great counter to Social Media and have been for centuries. We’ll be a new type of Book Club where each Day we’ll send you an email with a Book we selected and reviewed, saving you the time and effort you’d need to read it by explaining the big idea of the book and how it can be applied to our lives with topics relevant to our Introverted Personalities. The most important part is we’ll always send a relevant writing prompt to help you get out of your shell by posting about it somehow on Social Media. This will help you take action and make a better life for yourself instead of all the doom scrolling we know you do too much of already.
Here’s to the best year you’ll ever have! We’re stronger together! Thanks for being a part of Club255
Buy the Book Here: https://amzn.to/3NHwSML
Curious Quotes from the Author
”It is actually a person's rough edges and human imperfections that give others something to connect with.”
Surrender doesn't mean giving up, it means letting go of what one can't change and changing what one can.
My definition of integrity is "deciding what feels right and doing it."
Cognition of the Book’s Big Idea:
The whole of this book talk’s about “Nice Guy Syndrome”. How it develops, how it makes us feel in the long run and how to overcome it. Being a Nice guy has a few positive traits, but for the most part, it’s a coping mechanism against our fatal flaws as it usually leads to dissatisfaction with our relationships. We become people pleasers and our needs go unfulfilled, girls reject us romantically because we always cater to their needs but don’t act like an alpha in the relationship, which turns them off and in fact does not meet their needs, not even close.
Fixing Nice Guy Syndrome can be done in 6 easy steps:
1. Let Go of everything you can’t control
2. Stop trying to believe in things that aren’t reality and only in your mind.
3. Express and Feel your Feelings
4. Face your Fears
5. Work on your Integrity
6. Set your own Boundaries
By regaining your Masculinity, you allow yourself to be who you are and not what you think others want you to be, becoming instantly more attractive to the right person you WANT to be attracted to.
“But now, there are two final questions you should ask yourself about your life: Is the life you’re creating the one you want? And if the answer to that is no, why not?
The most probable answer to that second question is that fear is getting in the way. Most Nice Guys are controlled by their fear. It’s fear that stops you from asking for the raise you deserve. It’s fear that stops you from continuing your education. It’s fear that stops you from setting up your own business. It’s fear that stops you from living where you want to live. And above all, it’s fear that makes you afraid of your own success.”
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Collaborate with others by posting your thoughts Online with this Prompt:
What was an event in your life that you played the “nice guy” card and got punished for it? How could it have turned out differently if you were more assertive in what you actually wanted instead of trying to please others and doing what you think they would want you to do?
Want to spice up your social post? Make sure the first line hooks the reader to read the rest of your thought. Get them top stop scrolling and engage with your post. Say something like:
This girl was a 9, and she was so into me, a simple geek who coded for a living. 20 Minutes later she wanted nothing to do with me. Let me tell you what happened…
If you see that headline, you automatically want to read the rest of the story, so you’ll click on it. Make sure there’s a payoff at the end, some sort of exciting or drama filled resolution to the story. That’s a really good post, I’d click on that, wouldn’t you?